AFTER my ex and I spoke seriously about getting back together she went out by herself and ended up in a hotel with another man.
I am 28, she is 25. We split up last September because I could not put up with her drinking and drug-taking.
She accused me of having affairs, which was untrue.
Last month we met by chance and she said she had sorted herself out.
We were getting on – though meeting up always involved drinking.
On my mate’s birthday I went for a drink and promised to be back by 10pm.
She was fine about it but then went out herself and came back at 2am, very drunk, having been to a hotel with this other guy.
Now I feel I am back to square one.
Get in touch with Deidre today
Got a problem?
Send an email to [email protected] Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.
DEIDRE SAYS: Your ex clearly has not sorted herself out as she claimed – and maybe she hoped.
Beating addictions is hard and you can’t change her behaviour.
She can find support at Drinkline (0300 123 1110) but either she cuts drugs and alcohol out of her life completely (because she won’t make the change without doing that) or you should move on.
My e-leaflet Mending Your Broken Heart will help.
Source: Read Full Article