DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I come on to my girlfriend she rolls over and pretends to be asleep.
She’s got zero interest in sex and it’s making me feel rejected and frustrated.
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I’m 28 and she’s 25. We started dating two years ago.
She won’t talk about sex, so I don’t know if her problem is with me or if she’s always felt like this.
We did have sex at the start of our relationship but I think she just did it to please me.
I don’t think it’s normal for a woman of her age. My previous girlfriends wanted to do it all the time.
I’ve tried everything I can think of to get her in the mood – being romantic, buying her presents, complimenting her on her body. Nothing works.
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She just says she’s not in the mood.
What can I do? I love her and don’t want to break up with her, but I can’t stay celibate for much longer.
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