{"id":69045,"date":"2023-09-14T00:43:14","date_gmt":"2023-09-14T00:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/geels.net\/?p=69045"},"modified":"2023-09-14T00:43:14","modified_gmt":"2023-09-14T00:43:14","slug":"alma-and-ali-hit-it-off-on-this-weeks-blind-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/geels.net\/beauty\/alma-and-ali-hit-it-off-on-this-weeks-blind-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Alma and Ali hit it off on this week's Blind Date"},"content":{"rendered":"
ALMA, 41\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Single with three daughters, 12, 20 and 21.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Dating Past?<\/span><\/p>\n I was married at 18 and became a mother at 20. My husband, a police officer, was authoritarian and we didn’t have a good marriage.<\/p>\n He was killed in a car accident when I was 33, so I have had to focus all my energy on my daughters since then. But now I feel ready to share my life again.<\/p>\n Pre-Date Nerves?<\/span><\/p>\n Yes, but I was worried about what I’d say or how I’d come across, rather than feeling any anxiety around my date.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Alma’s looking for someone different to her former husband, although she’s not entirely sure what she wants\u00a0<\/p>\n First Impressions?<\/span><\/p>\n I had been told that Ali ran a gym so I was expecting some muscle-bound meathead without much of a brain, but I was so wrong.<\/p>\n When he walked in I saw that, yes, he was athletic, but from the moment he started talking I could tell he was intelligent.\u00a0<\/p>\n I can’t say he was particularly my type physically but his confidence and his presence in the room was attractive.<\/p>\n Easy To Talk To?<\/span><\/p>\n It was amazing. We talked about everything from our childhoods to what we both wanted in life and hoped to achieve.\u00a0<\/p>\n He is much brighter than me, but we had some deep conversations about women’s rights, for example.<\/p>\n I’ve fought hard to be where I am today and he said I had the power in me to do whatever I wanted. And he made me laugh so much \u2014 I had tears rolling down my face.<\/p>\n I messaged him after the date and he said: ‘I can’t wait to see that superwoman in you’. He is such a great guy.\u00a0<\/p>\n I know I’ve met a really good friend, even if no relationship develops because he’s in Northampton and I’m in London.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Alma enjoyed talking to Ali, covering everything from their childhoods to what they both wanted in life and hoped to achieve<\/p>\n Embarrassing Moments?<\/span><\/p>\n No, none at all.<\/p>\n Did sparks fly?<\/span><\/p>\n I’m quite reserved as a person, so I always need more than one date to feel a romantic spark.\u00a0<\/p>\n I’ve been so hurt in the past that I’m wary of going all-in with somebody new.<\/p>\n See him again?<\/span><\/p>\n I don’t know. I’d love to, but the distance will make it difficult.<\/p>\n What do you think he thought of you?<\/span><\/p>\n I think he liked me. He seemed to pay a lot of attention to what I was saying and smiled a lot when I spoke.\u00a0<\/p>\n I’ve had some tough times and he brought out the best in me.<\/p>\n Would your family like him?<\/span><\/p>\n I told my 12-year-old daughter about our date and she said: ‘He’s so cool \u2014 why don’t you marry him?’ I was like: ‘Slow down!’<\/p>\n ALMA<\/span><\/p>\n Single with three daughters, 12, 20 and 21.<\/p>\n CURRENT ROLE<\/span><\/p>\n Pre-school practitioner.<\/p>\n WOULD LIKE TO MEET<\/span><\/p>\n Someone different to my former husband, although I’m still figuring out what I want. He needs to give off lots of positive energy and be a good listener.<\/p>\n ALI<\/span><\/p>\n Single with a daughter, 11.<\/p>\n CURRENT ROLE<\/span><\/p>\n Personal coach and gym manager.<\/p>\n WOULD LIKE <\/span>TO MEET<\/span><\/p>\n I prefer women with a slim, athletic build but I’m really open-minded about personality. The only thing that would put me off is a materialistic woman.<\/p>\n ALI, 46<\/span><\/p>\n Single with a daughter, 11.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Dating Past?<\/span><\/p>\n I’ve had a number of long-term relationships, including the one that gave me my daughter.\u00a0<\/p>\n I was in a wonderful relationship until fairly recently, but it didn’t work out, which left me heartbroken.\u00a0<\/p>\n Life does that to you occasionally and you have to move on.<\/p>\n Pre-Date Nerves?<\/span><\/p>\n None at all. I hadn’t even thought about it. All I felt were curiosity and excitement.<\/p>\n First Impressions?<\/span><\/p>\n The moment I saw Alma, I thought she was very pretty. Her hair was the thing that really struck me.\u00a0She had gorgeous, big curls which were very attractive.\u00a0<\/p>\n We smiled \u2014 there was no kiss or shaking of hands \u2014 and just sat down to start chatting.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n While Ali prefers women with a slim, athletic build, he is\u00a0 open-minded about personality. He’s not interested in meeting a materialistic woman<\/p>\n Easy To Talk To?<\/span><\/p>\n I said: ‘Let’s get this rolling and order some drinks and make things happen’, and that was it.\u00a0<\/p>\n We didn’t stop talking until she had to be picked up four hours later. I thought she was absolutely wicked and, to be honest, I think I’ve changed her life.\u00a0<\/p>\n She’s clearly been through some tough times and because I’m a coach, I could talk her through some of that.<\/p>\n I also gave her a cheeky new nickname I can’t repeat here, which she loved.\u00a0<\/p>\n She even messaged me after the date signing off with it. She’s a real laugh and I got on well with her.<\/p>\n Embarrassing Moments?<\/span><\/p>\n There were none. I have no filter at all so I’ve trained myself never to be embarrassed.\u00a0<\/p>\n If I say something clumsy, I embrace it.<\/p>\n Did sparks fly?<\/span><\/p>\n Yes, definitely. We had a kiss at the end of the date but nothing too passionate, as you don’t want to start a fire you can’t put out.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ali thought Alma was great and, as a coach, believes he has helped her work through some of her difficult past<\/p>\n See her again?<\/span><\/p>\n We’ve swapped Instagram handles and she messaged me last night for a quick chat.<\/p>\n I’d love to see her again, despite how far apart we live, so we are going to stay in regular contact.<\/p>\n What do you think she thought of you?<\/span><\/p>\n She probably thinks I’m the best person she’s ever met. But if she gives me 0 out of 10 then I can embrace that and spin it.\u00a0<\/p>\n It would be worse if she gave me 5 out of 10 because that’s just average.<\/p>\n Would your family like her?<\/span><\/p>\n Absolutely \u2014 she’d get on with anyone around me.<\/p>\n ALMA’S VERDICT: 10\/10<\/span><\/p>\n LIKED?<\/span> The whole package \u2014 I loved his energy.<\/p>\n REGRETS?<\/span> None.<\/p>\n COFFEE OR CAB? <\/span>Coffee.<\/p>\n ALI’S VERDICT: 10\/10<\/span><\/p>\n LIKED?<\/span> She’s lovely and is going to change the world.<\/p>\n REGRETS?<\/span> None.<\/p>\nBLIND DATE VITAL STATISTICS\u00a0<\/h3>\n