{"id":69416,"date":"2023-09-27T18:39:44","date_gmt":"2023-09-27T18:39:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/geels.net\/?p=69416"},"modified":"2023-09-27T18:39:44","modified_gmt":"2023-09-27T18:39:44","slug":"my-ex-wifes-social-media-posts-are-really-beginning-to-stir-me-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/geels.net\/beauty\/my-ex-wifes-social-media-posts-are-really-beginning-to-stir-me-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My ex wife&#x27;s social media posts are really beginning to stir me | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though she cheated on me multiple times, it is my ex\u2019s latest relationship that stings the most.<\/p>\n<p>She shamelessly flaunts her new man on social media and boasts about their \u201cenergetic bedroom activities\u201d. But I still miss her.<\/p>\n<p>I put everything into our marriage and thought we\u2019d grow old together. <\/p>\n<p>Instead, I feel rejected and do not think I can ever trust another woman again.<\/p>\n<p>My wife and I were married for 20 years. I\u2019m 50, she\u2019s 48 and we have three grown-up children.<\/p>\n<p>During our marriage, she had at least two affairs, that I know of. It could have been more.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019d disappear off for days, leaving me to look after the kids.<br \/>Stupidly, I always took her back. <\/p>\n<h3>Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n<p>Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n<p>Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n<p>Then, when the children had finally left home, she announced she\u2019d met someone else and wanted a divorce.<\/p>\n<p>I still think about her every day, even though we\u2019re not in contact.<\/p>\n<p>She is marrying her new man soon and I feel insanely jealous. He\u2019s 42. I can\u2019t help looking at her social media and torturing myself with her posts \u2014 the meals out, the holidays. <\/p>\n<p>Things we should be doing together.<\/p>\n<p>She even took him to the place in Italy where we spent our honeymoon. <\/p>\n<p>That really hurt me. I\u2019ve tried dating since we divorced but I rarely get beyond the first meeting.<\/p>\n<p>The women I see don\u2019t match up to my ex in looks or personality.<\/p>\n<p>I know I come across as insecure and find myself talking about my divorce, which is off-putting. <\/p>\n<p>How can I move forward?<\/p>\n<h2>MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dsc_0443jpg-JS764166416-1-3.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dsc_0443jpg-JS764166416-1-3.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dsc_0443jpg-JS764166416-1-3.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEAR DEIDRE <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>My love rat husband can\u2019t handle the new me<\/h3>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/deidre-casebook-wc25sep-day4-comp-1-4.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/deidre-casebook-wc25sep-day4-comp-1-4.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/deidre-casebook-wc25sep-day4-comp-1-4.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEIDRE&#x27;S STORIES <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Oliver&#x27;s girlfriend is concerned at how much money he&#x27;s gambling at bingo<\/h3>\n<p><span><strong>DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span> Your ex-wife treated you appallingly and it sounds like she has destroyed your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>Do not let her destroy your future too. You are not to blame for what happened.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, you fell in love with someone who was selfish and didn\u2019t deserve you. But not all women are like her.<\/p>\n<p>Now it is time to stop living in the past. You are a good and loving man who has a lot to offer someone.<\/p>\n<p>Torturing yourself with your ex\u2019s pictures is doing you no favours.<\/p>\n<p>Block her social media so that you won\u2019t be tempted.<\/p>\n<p>My support packs, Cheating, Can You Get Over It? Building Self-esteem and Moving On should help you.<\/p>\n<p>Talking to someone would also be a good idea. Also, do think about having some counselling.<\/p>\n<h2>Most read in Dear Deidre<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/deidre-casebook-wc25sep-day4-comp-1-4.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEIDRE&#8217;S STORIES <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Oliver&#8217;s girlfriend is concerned at how much money he&#8217;s gambling at bingo<\/h3>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dsc_0443jpg-JS764166416-1-3.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEAR DEIDRE <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>My love rat husband can\u2019t handle the new me<\/h3>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/GettyImages-1254532599jpg-JS847967622.jpg\"><\/picture><span>FETISH FEARS <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>I can&#8217;t get my head around my girlfriend&#8217;s fetish &#8211; I&#8217;m having second thoughts<\/h3>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/GettyImages-157649528jpg-JS383682304.jpg\"><\/picture><span>LOVE BOMB <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>I&#8217;m desperate to meet a good man but my dates always go wrong<\/h3>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Pictures posed by models.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/dear-deidre\/24159374\/ex-wifes-social-media-posts-beginning-to-stir-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though she cheated on me multiple times, it is my ex\u2019s latest relationship that stings the most.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":69415,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>US Entertainment News. 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