{"id":70060,"date":"2023-10-26T18:11:55","date_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:11:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/geels.net\/?p=70060"},"modified":"2023-10-26T18:11:55","modified_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:11:55","slug":"how-do-i-tell-my-boyfriend-ive-been-faking-orgasms-for-months-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/geels.net\/beauty\/how-do-i-tell-my-boyfriend-ive-been-faking-orgasms-for-months-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I tell my boyfriend I've been faking orgasms for months? | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend can\u2019t tell the difference between me faking it and genuinely orgasming.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think I\u2019m very convincing but as long as I utter a couple of moans, he thinks I am climaxing and enjoying sex, but nothing could be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

I am 32 and he is 35. We have been together for three years. At first I used to orgasm easily as I was very turned on, but now I don\u2019t get as aroused, no matter how much foreplay there is. <\/p>\n

We previously used vibrators, but since we stopped, my orgasms have vanished.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I have no problems when I pleasure myself. My boyfriend doesn\u2019t realise there is a problem and seems\u00a0content with our sex life.\u00a0<\/p>\n

This has been going on for at least six months so how do I tell him the truth now?<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>You\u2019ve got yourself into a trap. If you fake it, how can your boyfriend to know things have changed? <\/p>\n

Have a chat with him away from the bedroom so he knows he needs to change \u00a0technique \u2013 perhaps reintroducing \u00a0sex toy play \u2013 to pleasure you.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Show him what works well for you and don\u2019t be tempted to pretend or you\u2019ll be back to square one. <\/p>\n

It can be really overwhelming talking about changes in desire but unless you take that leap of faith, your responses will remain numbed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sending you my support pack Help Your Partner Reach Orgasm.<\/p>\n

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