{"id":70391,"date":"2023-11-15T13:38:24","date_gmt":"2023-11-15T13:38:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/geels.net\/?p=70391"},"modified":"2023-11-15T13:38:24","modified_gmt":"2023-11-15T13:38:24","slug":"all-the-signs-are-there-so-is-my-wife-doing-the-dirty-on-me-again-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/geels.net\/beauty\/all-the-signs-are-there-so-is-my-wife-doing-the-dirty-on-me-again-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"All the signs are there, so is my wife doing the dirty on me again? | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: We were engaged to be married, but all of a sudden my fianc\u00e9e went off sex.<\/p>\n<p>I was frustrated, then upset when I discovered the reason why \u2014 she was having sex with an ex.<\/p>\n<p>That was more than 20 years ago but the memory still leaves me feeling low and vulnerable.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m 48 now and my wife is 49. We managed to sort out our relationship because I confronted her and she came clean, begging my forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>She said she had panicked about settling down. Her parents didn\u2019t have a good relationship, and she was worried about locking herself into a miserable future.<\/p>\n<p>Since then we both worked hard at our marriage and have had years of happiness with our son and daughter.<\/p>\n<p>But recently my wife has been rejecting me again and doesn\u2019t want to have sex any more.<\/p>\n<h3>Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n<p>Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n<p>Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n<p>If I try to touch her, she freezes and pulls away. It\u2019s killing me.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s bringing back awful memories of when she cheated before.<br \/>I want to know if she is avoiding sex with me because she is sleeping with another man, just like she did all those years ago.<\/p>\n<p>On the occasions she agrees to have sex, I feel she\u2019s doing it because she feels sorry for me, or sees it as a way to divert my suspicions.<\/p>\n<p>What can I do?<\/p>\n<p>In a way I don\u2019t want to ask her if she\u2019s being unfaithful again, because I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll cope with that reality for a second time. It was so awful the first time around.<\/p>\n<h2>MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/000012751385_XXXLargejpg-JS857849001.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/000012751385_XXXLargejpg-JS857849001.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/000012751385_XXXLargejpg-JS857849001.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEAR DEIDRE <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>My husband is having sex with my best friend<\/h3>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEIDRE&#x27;S STORIES <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Dalton accepts he may never get Stella back<\/h3>\n<p>DEIDRE SAYS: At 49 it is very likely that your wife is perimenopausal.<\/p>\n<p>One of the most common symptoms is a lowered sex drive.<\/p>\n<p>Many women also experience pain when having intercourse because the change in hormones results in vaginal dryness.<\/p>\n<p>So rather than jump to the worst conclusion, start to talk to your wife and ask her about how she is feeling.<\/p>\n<p>It would also be good to encourage your wife to visit her doctor and discuss hormone replacement treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Panicking silently won\u2019t help anyone, so let her know you are missing the intimacy you once shared.<\/p>\n<p>All couples will experience fluctuations in their libidos which is completely normal.<\/p>\n<p>Stress, depression, health changes, or problems in the relationship can all affect how a couple are connecting sexually.<\/p>\n<p>My support pack Different Sex Drives explains more.<\/p>\n<h2>Most read in Dear Deidre<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>Dalton accepts he may never get Stella back<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/000012751385_XXXLargejpg-JS857849001.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My husband is having sex with my best friend<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/faa119000027jpg-JS857849194.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>I&#8217;ve fallen head over heels for a colleague 30 years younger<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/fil_5352m-JS857850176.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My sister hasn&#8217;t spoken to me in ten years &#8211; how do I mend things?<\/h3>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/dear-deidre\/24693200\/forgave-my-cheating-fiance-betrayed-me-again\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: We were engaged to be married, but all of a sudden my fianc\u00e9e went off sex. 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